Vanessa was already measuring the bedroom wall in my guest house when she casually told me she’d be living there for a year, rent-free.

That weekend, Aaron came over with groceries.

She still thought there might be a compromise.

“Maybe Vanessa could stay a month and Colin could pay.”

I looked at her.

“Why didn’t you offer your guest room?”

“I don’t know her.”

“Neither do I.”

That stopped her.

Then I finally said something I should have said years earlier.

“Everyone keeps finding reasons why I should be the person who gives something up.”

Aaron looked uncomfortable.

I continued.

“You do it too. You assume I’ll manage because I always manage.”

“That’s not fair.”

“You think I’m the easiest person to push.”

She left angry.

That night, I opened the wedding folder.

I calculated the deposits I would lose if I canceled.

$2,400.

It hurt.

But not enough to marry someone I no longer trusted.

Before I could finish making the decision, Ruth emailed me.

Colin had shown up at my house while I was still at work.