“Our children always thought we had a perfect marriage. But on my husband’s 80th birthday, he asked everyone to leave the room and said, ‘Mary, it’s time you knew why I really married you…’”

He reached into the box again.

This time, he pulled out an old train ticket.

“This is the ticket I was supposed to use.”

He turned it over.

It had never been stamped.

“After speaking to your father, I went home. I sat on the edge of my bed all night thinking. The next morning, I went to the station.”

My heart began racing again.

“And?”

“I stood there watching that train and realized I didn’t want to get on it.”

He looked directly at me.

“Not because of your father. Not because I felt sorry for you. I imagined my life without you, and for the first time I understood that it wasn’t the life I wanted.”

His eyes filled with tears.

“I went back home. Three days later, I bought a ring.”

I covered my mouth with my hand.

George continued.

“Your father didn’t make me  marry you. He simply made me understand in time what I had been too afraid to admit to myself.”

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